I think this quote is adorable, so I had to share it with you. Have a great weekend! XO
“You should date a girl who reads.
Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes, who has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.
Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she has found the book she wants. You see that weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a secondhand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow and worn.
She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.
Buy her another cup of coffee.
Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.
It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas, for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry and in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.
She has to give it a shot somehow.
Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.
Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who read understand that all things must come to end, but that you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.
Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.
If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.
You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.
You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.
Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.
Or better yet, date a girl who writes.”
― Rosemarie Urquico
Can you believe it’s FRIDAY?! This week flew by, not that I’m complaining 😉 Some of you may already know that I’ve been locked away,
scribbling typing out my new project – so I’ve been quieter on the interwebz.
Know that I miss you.
You should make some tea and picture me doing the same thing. I hope your projects are all going
well AMAZINGLY- Make sure you take some YOU time over the weekend, too.
Here’s a little something to tuck away in your mind and savor when you need it. You are made of so much awesome. ❤
It’s FRIDAY!!!! I hope your weekend is wrapped up in a summertime dream. Go out and have some fun, or stay inside and curl up with a great book. Either way, let your imagination run free. See you back here on Monday.
Until then, let’s interwebs dance. XO
Artist: Modest Mouse
Song: Float On
Video Credit: Kichirou08’s youtube channel
It’s all summertime-y so this post is going to be SHAMEFULLY short. Like it’s over already. No, seriously it is. 😉 Have a great weekend! Here’s a nice cover of a great summery song. XO
Artist: The Bird and The Bee
Song: Heard it on the radio
(Hall & Oates cover)
Video credit: UndacovaSooperSpy‘s Youtube Channel
If you haven’t listened to the Black Keys yet, you’re definitely missing out on a great band. So here’s a song just for you <3333’s! Happy Friday, and for everyone celebrating Easter, I hope the bunny’s good to you!! 🙂
Video Credit FUDHEAD’s Youtube Channel
I usually listen to this song before I sit down to write each day, and thought maybe you crazy kids would feel inspired by listening to it too. Have a fantastic weekend filled with creativity, and cocktails! I’ll see you back here first thing Monday morning XO.
Artist: Florence + The Machine
Song: Rabbit Heart (Raise it up)